The A, I can tell you, exposing it, will make you feel good in the short run. But in the long run it could be worse.
If she knows you know, or suspect, that is probably more than enough.
Telling the OM’s S will just create the same pain you are having in someone else. While it may seem unfair to let her “sit in the dark”, it is also unfair to bomb her just because her H doesn’t have the guts to do it. Just my opinion.
Kerry,
Romance based languages—French, English, Italian, Spanish, and probably a few others. All have a basis in Latin. The dead language. Many similarities, many differences but all beautiful languages.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
