Nothing works, when I try GAL and do more of my own thing, she does even more of her own thing. When I try going dark, she goes even darker and colder. Now after almost four years of this, she is starting to make arrangments to leave the home, she has found a house and talking about how she wants to split things up. She really wants a D but after talking to a lawyer, she found out that the court would grant her child support that whould be more than I could afford. We both make the same $$ so what she really wants is to split custody 50/50 with no child support. I feel like I have no options, I can't make her realize how much I still love her, I can't stop her from filing on her own and the court granting her child support and destroying any possible way of having a normal home life at my house. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
