Hi Friends, Just reading through your last posts and saw Pearl's:
"You're exactly right. He's not filing because A) he's a coward and B) he's pushing you to do it so he can say you are the one who ended things. BTDT."
I am sort of in the same place now myself. H has done nothing yet to move this along, and I think much of it (as seemed the case w Pearl's sitch last yr too) was being a coward and having you take the reigns so they don't have to. It's annoying, frustrating whatever...but I also agree with Pearl about how there comes a time when you need to take the reigns yourself! Sounds like you are very much moving in that directions even if not thinking about the filing piece quite yet.
Sorry I've been MIA for a bit...was trapped in Philly last wk b/c of the storm then in NYC all weekend with girlfriends - had a blast, did not think about H much at all. I'm feeling a little more towards the indifference category now. But I know the emotions and different feelings come in ways and you're right to acknowledge and accept them, then get back up again.
This is all hard stuff and sometimes you need to just take a break from it all. I'll post more on my thread later today. Hope you have a good day! ((t))
