I brought D14 home this morning. She is sore but compared to how she was at the weekend much better. The appendix was already gangrenous and necrotic when they operated so they had to give virtually all of her intestines a wash out to ensure that the infection didn't spread.
X continues to be a jerk but that's his problem. I've made it perfectly clear that he and MIL are welcome to visit D14 here any time they like. No one has mentioned OW (yet) but I'm sorry I draw the line at that. D14 is supposed to be at XHs next week. He is acting as if that will still happen but I'm not sure she is up to swapping houses. I will have a battle on my hands if I want to change things but I'm strong enough to hanlde it. He hasn't offered to let me go there to see her so that might be the deciding factor.
Yesterday OW sent pancakes into the the hospital for D14 which she had 'lovingly' made herself. I so wanted to throw the plate out of the window and tell XH to tell her to stick to worrying about her own chld and let me wory about mine. I didn't but it was v. hard.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
