Thanks Lin - I'm a slow learner. It's taken me FOREVER to "get it," and probably too long for H to come around-----but I think I have finally gotten it. Maybe that was the plan. Maybe I had to fully accept that H will not return (which I think I have now)before it would sink in. I will be working on me for ME.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
