Youve grown so much over night. Its amazing how throwing your stuff out here and bashing it around a bit with a few folks chipping in you get a realisation of what is really happening.
We need to find ways that you can tell him to back off and behave but still look charming, sexy and sassy!
He is pushing to test you all the time, it really is his problem, his frustration that you are getting on with things and he is still stuck being purile, spoilt, spiteful and bossy!
How do you get to bring topics to the table at MC, does the C set the topics or can you say you want to discuss blah blah at the next one.. Was thinking along the lines of being a bit stronger with how you deal with his nasty behaviour. Boundary setting. Maybe you have to be a bit brave with this one, only you know how easily he could walk, personally he hasnt gone yet, and he hasnt processed the D and he is still coming back and staying, thats a man not done yet, but trying to see if he can manipulate you into being the sorta wife he wants!
When you bait me YOU are being disrespectful of MY changes and it MAKES ME not want to spend time with YOU!
When you bait me YOU are being disrespectful of YOUR SONS MOTHER and I cant accept that if YOU dont stop I will ask you to leave.
Perhaps we could ask one of the vets to have a look over some boundaries you want to set, have a go at some of your own and we'll see who we can rope in to have a look at them!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
