posting my Goals for the next 2 weeks here - received some really good advise from sgctxok.

1. H will smile at me
2. H will and I will laugh
3. He will acknowledge the changes I have made within myself.

These are things that he has done in the past month - but I feel I need to see them more before I set more goals.

How will I know things are getting better?
1. H will call me
2. H will ask how my day was.
3. H will ask to spent some time with me.

Advise if I am getting this right. I am great at setting goals for work and my employees! this is new to me. I always just went through life.. big part of my problem.

Last edited by lostnotgone; 02/17/10 10:32 AM.

LNG
Me - 37
H - 42
S - 19
D - 16
D - 14
M - 20 years
S - 1/11/2010
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