Yes it's ME (robx) and I'm looking for advice...

[GH31]

RobX,

I have not posted to you before but was struck by what you wrote on BOT's thread and the advice you've been giving him.

You mate, are an inspiration to all of us men on this board and an example. Thank you so much for the input you have given us over the last couple of years.

This is why:

I would dare say that 2009 was one of the best years ever regardless of my current situation.

And even more so, this:

I've almost considered setting up a website and writing a book on the stuff that I know that actually produces results.

That is what DBing, in the truest sense is about.

Doing what works.

Unfortunately for men and I would include myself in this at times, we are far too chickens*** sometimes to hold our nuts and do what we must do.

I just love this:

Without honesty there is nothing and my life is too good right now to go back into a relationship/marriage that is filled with lies.

and this:

But I can't allow lies & dishonesty back in my life, after purging that filth from my life I can pretty much guarantee you and anyone else that I won't live with that anymore and I don't want to be anyone that doesn't value me or the relationship they have with me.

Please keep posting to us RobX. You're welcome over at my thread if you have the time but I will continue to follow this one.

best,

GH31