Wow, you are my idol, yet you still have VDay anxiety? lol. Glad to know I"m not alone. We all go through it don't we? I'm glad you texted him and set your mind to ease! Sometimes this big no no against contacting them just doesn't fit. I think it fits more when we are doing too much pursuing. I understand the anxiety about - where is he and why isn't he calling he must have an OW - so I also know you don't always want to contact them out of that anxiety. But see? You got your reassurance.
VDay is a terrible holiday. Why do we let ourselves get all wrapped up in it?
I got no gifts but I got a few good R assurances. H texted me to tell me he was on the golden gate bridge. Usually I have no idea where he disappears to and I don't want to panic and ask. But it felt really good to be assured he wasn't with an OW which is of course where our minds go to when we don't see them on VDay.
Great job. you took care of yourself and you are still my idol!
