Saturday 180 - told my parents about H's A Saturday GAL - went to local historic site with S's Today GAL - met with a MOMS group and made friends Today GAL - booked a food tasting party for next month at my home Today GAL - found a future hostess for my business Today 180 - did not yell at kids when frustrated Today 180?GAL? - called the chaplain's office to make and appointment for MC Today GAL - planned activities for the rest of the month with S's
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
Today I Marshmallow : And smile with you people. In the words of Mindful MIRROR-UP Today I GAL : by running 3.5 miles ( need to get rid of 5 beers from concert ) Today I 180 : by resting and enjoying a nice quiet night alone.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
Today I GAL: By doing DAY TWO of the Couch to 5k WEEK ONE Today I GAL: By going around town getting wine donations w/the BFF for the school dinner auction
Last night I 180'd: By forgetting to call H back all day! <g> Last night I GAL'd: By taking the boys to a girls bball game
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Last Night I GAL: Went to a Tai Chi Class. Tonight I Will GAL: Going to the YMCA to Work Out.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
GAL - went to local animal refuge with MOMS and walked with kiddos (didn't actually see animals though) GAL - called the new sitter and went to the store alone. It felt great 180 - for the first time since all this began did not bother to answer when my H called. twice so far tonight...
On another subject, could some of you please come by my thread?
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
today i GAL by: actually doing what coach told me to ! today i 180 by: telling ex-GF that i made a decission about the gardenhouse ! today i GAL : going to friends house to watch movie, without talking about GF
________ I Can I Will I Must!!this too shall pass! Me : 38 GF : 30 Bomb drop 25/1-1(day after my birthday) She moved out same day Packed stuff 28/1-10 Moved stuff 30/1-10 talk 3 times since
Today 180 - changed tactics for disciplining S's as old methods had begun to be useless Today GAL - ignored the "call waiting" beep from my phone. No idea who it was as my screen is broken... Today 180 & GAL - did my 30 minutes of aerobic exercise as laid out in my fitness/weight loss goals Today GAL - ate according to my nutrition plan Yesterday GAL - finalized plans for the Vegas trip and felt no guilt about taking me time!
And I don't think it fits into GAL or 180, but I am only ONE POUND from my current weight goal!!! H comes home in two days and I darn well will make it!
It's a good day, tater.
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
today I GAL: went out for dim sum with my friend and my 2 kids and ate whatever I wanted to (reminder to self: never take kids out to restaurant ever again)
today I GAL/180: sat with a neighbour and asked her about her life
today I 180: pulled out a graphic 70s thrift store dress out of the closet and wore it...it's OK to express myself through my clothing!
today I 180: practiced setting boundaries with my S...always lots of opportunities!
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
