I came home early tonight as well. Saw her for the first time in 8 days, but I didn't say a word. I think it's the wrong tack to take, since it seems so hostile. But I just don't want to talk to her right now or even really see her.
At this point, I'm not really db'ing very well at all. I should be at least presenting the wonderful man she is giving up, not an angry distant guy that feels her with guilt.
I'm wondering if this 'going dark' isn't a bad thing at all. She doesn't want you in her life anymore, so let her feel the reality of that. Give yourself some space and room to work on yourself. (Especially with these unexpected emotions running through you right now.)
