Doing hard time on the MLC chain gang.

[MHL]

CLV,
Kemper just left and he is going to think I am a big ole liar b/c I told him I was not going to post on my thread until I saw more from my W. Kemper and I get together about once or twice a week and kill some beers at my place or local bar, yes it is nice having a fellow DBer live around the corner.

Yes I am seeing some positive things, nothing earth shattering, no ILY's or Great admissions of guilt and wrong doing or wanting to come back. Mostly small things, hug here, sharing how she is feeling, being at ease talking to me, 1 or 2 contacts initiated by her. I won't go into detail b/c I can't really say that I am DBing, I am not pursuing but I would not say that I am DBing. I am in uncharted waters here and I don't want to mislead anyone with the positives I am having. I fully realize what I am doing or not doing and as long as I am seeing something different from her I will keep it up but with zero expectations.

Is my W in MLC? yes. Do I know where she is as in what stage? no Definitely am seeing more and more of my old W and almost none of the BS behavior that comes with MLC. Of course, my W does not live here anymore so my assertions are based on the limited interactions I have with her. Don't know if there is a OM in the picture or not, don't care, my actions or non-actions are the same. Hopefully, I can share more in due time but as I said I am watching and evaluating what she is doing.

I will come downstairs and see you tomorrow in separated, I still look at everyone's sitch daily DW, CTH, Nik, Tom, Lolal, and yours CLV. Thanks for checking in on me, I don't know where I would be without the support I get on these boards.