I think I'd rather be dead than this- WAW

[Quart9]

Thanks Puppy for your reply. I'm continuing job hunting and I plan to meet with the lady from the property management company for W and I's apt tomorrow.

I want to make sure they have to have consent from both of us to end our lease and make them aware that I will not consent (especially since they didn't require consent from both of us to change the locks). It pisses me off that they would do that without my consent, but I have no idea what my W told the prop mngmnt lady. I want to find out if they will give me a key to our apt (because I'm pretty certain my wife will not be willing to give me one -maybe I should still ask her first?). I'm hoping that the prop mngmnt lady will be transparent with me as she has always seemed more willing to interact with my W in the past.

My wife went out of town on 2/14 and I have not heard hide nor hair from her since 2/11. I have no idea when she will be back (and have made no attempt to find out since I'm no longer pursuing). I'm going to meet with an attorney on Thursday morning. I just want to find out my rights/what to expect based on our sitch in a D, plus I am going to determine if/how I can get spousal support if we do. A while back W asked me if I would pursue spousal support. I told her that it may be something that is out of my control based on CA law and left it at that.

It urks me to think that she probably has been in contact w/ OM while she has been gone - but not with me. It seems like she has portrayed herself as a victim to her friends and family. I am positive she has kept OM a secret from all of them (even her BFF's) so her image stays squeeky clean. I would love to expose them.

I should mention that I've also been contemplating talking to a DB Coach.