Interesting point, Deep. I think you are correct. I tie it to the open mind, willing heart question. If you have an open mind, then I think that the Retrouvaille questions will make you look inside, whether you wanted to or not. But many people are unwilling to do that. That might be what causes the reactions against the weekend that a few people have reported. Maybe uncooperative spouses are fighting introspection more than they are fighting the spouse. Or using fighting the spouse as a means to avoid introspection. For us, the weekend was like going to a zen meditation retreat. we felt cleansed when it was over.
