Lotus' Lounge

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Lotus, I'll add my thanks for your sharing. Helps me understand your posts better.

Would be interesting to hear your comment on a train of thought: It's obvious that you (and your H too) have benefitted from Retrouvaille; it's also clear to me that both of you have been blessed with great self-awareness and realization from the point where you started to work on the M. Does it strike you that many couples, here, in the program, and generally, are stuck in a place where one or both are NOT, or where one or both parties truly feels or even fears that the spouse is not? IMO, without this self-awareness, fixing the M is like clapping with one hand.
Cheers.