Wow. I am so sorry that your W has acted this way. It's almost embarrassing to be classified as a W (and MOM) after reading that...
I support you, as well. I have a D18, S(almost 13) and S10. I'm living through one (in teen years), w/another one entering them. They will need you to stand up and BE their parent. Obviously, Mom isn't a great example now. TRUST ME ON THIS, they mirror the behaviors that benefit them at the time. They are NOT always, and sometimes, nearly EVER, positive!!
You sound like you're getting all of your ducks in a row.
Just sending a HUG!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
