I had a whole thing written but something stuck, so I'll write again
kerry. Just watched youtube of cat's and the cradle. thanks for making me cry. yes when you watch that it sure as hell puts everything in perspective. "too much...too much fn perspective" (a little spinal tap reference there for anyone who might get it)
Jack. thanks for making me laugh. I will name my next band Dinosaur Jesus for sure... that is the best band name I've ever heard of. I will send you the gig posters.
yes.. pretty unmanly stuff that I wrote. perhaps that is the whole problem to begin with!
btw-- was it for me to nut up or shut up or the W? I guess I'm the one with the nuts.
and thank you for your perspective on the father matters... it does help. it really does. in fact it may be the deal maker.
listening to lots of family members... they don't seem as helpful as here.
the perspective here seems to ring truer.
I guess they don't really know what its like-- or what its like to chose the wrong way.
for you guys it seems so clear... that is interesting. because nothing seems clear to me at all these days... so it is nice to have some people giving advice that is clear.