Great post Jack.

Harry Chapin
Cats in the Cradle

When I married my wife, there was some worry about immigration. I convinced myself that I would quit everything and move to Thailand with her if she was deported.

I am wondering if Bradley should be open during MC about his life decision he is wavering on. My gut feeling is no as it would sway his wife to quit out of guilt of holding his life dreams in limbo.

All I can add is that some very wise people told me during my marriage crisis that if I focus on the kids, everything will work out ok. And they were correct.