Oh Bradley...

I am not in your shoes.

You have my respect for being a surgeon and a cardiac surgeon at that, what you went through and what you do.

And for the record there is a chance that we have touched the same heart used to repair anothers.

Buddy,

IF you knew that your actions would result in your marriage being restored you wouldn't even question this.

That is not the case.

She is saying that she has not given up, and maybe it is time to nut up or shut up.

Show her that she and your boys are worth all the wind and worry you are creating.

You stay there and play it safe, and things stay the same.

Or move there take the risk.

I know this is your life. This is your call.

Things seems stacked against you, and because of that? What stay home?

To me it is a no brainer.

I fling myself at the wall of spears that seperated me and my family.

Sacrifice, that is what being a parent is. That is what is required of a relationship, and there is no guarentee. None.
None at all.

I do not know if any of that makes sense to you Bradley.

Love is risk.
Sacrifice shows love.

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There is NO Guarentee...you want a guarentee buy a washer and dryer.

With no risk we'd still be in a tidal pool somewhere.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet