Honestly, if you thought she were capable of murder, you'd be at a police station right now and not posting. So the over-the-top emotional reaction is something that you need to think about. Why are you harping on this?
I'm asking because in my early 20s, I did have a friend who was killed, and it was the most tragic thing to ever happen to me or her family. I assume that it's never happened to you before bc that kind of pain is no something to be joked about.
Sorry for your loss...and I'm not taking it lightly. If I had hard evidence of what she said, I would certainly be at the magistrates office filling out for a RO...but she said it on the phone and not in a text message or email...so theres no proof to show. It's just my word against hers. But I do believe that she would do it if I somehow brought about the end of her R with the OM...that's her mentality at this point.
I never heard her say it, but maybe it's been her dream since she was a little girl to marry someone with money...many little girls say that, then they grow up and their values change for the better. She is still in a youthful state of mind (for a mother of a young child) so that could be it. I had a fairly good education with multiple degrees and a lot of financial potential, but the economy has kicked me over and over again where it counts...so the best status we've been able to have in the years we've been together is middle class (which I'm happy with).
As far as what I mean by family values...someone that wouldnt cheat on their partner, who wouldnt break up their family just to be with another person.
