Undefeated I couldn't accept it when she said it to me. But after living with him, I felt sometimes he wasn't really talking to me. I don't know if that makes sense, but sometimes when he would argue with me that I was mean or angry all the time, his eyes were looking at me but they weren't talking to me. I think he has a lot of issues against his mom and some how I got the short stick.
He has A LOT of BPD traits so I am not sure if that's the reason he projects a lot of his negative emotions on to me. I have never been accussed of being mean or angry. As a matter of fact 90% of my ex's still look for me and want to know how I'm doing and if I'm single. They've always told me I was a great girlfriend and that there are a lt of girls that don't come close to how great I was. I don't want to sound like I'm into my self, I'm just sharing what I've been told. So when he says I'm angry, unpredictable, and mean it puzzles me.
I know he has a lot of issues he needs t deal with, and I'm hping he des. I miss him with all my heart, but it hurts so much that he's just erased me out of his life in two seconds flat.
