Hey Cat,

It's been a long looooong time...

I just read through your sitch and can't believe all the garbage your XH got himself into. It sounds like he has a difficult time separating his brain from his impulses. I'm sure glad you are in a mentally healthy place. And not making horrible mistakes. Ugh!

How weird that TL writes "root"... is that about me? Or maybe there's another root? I haven't been on here in... gosh.. a year??? I mean it seems like forever! Anyhow, it's really nice to be back here and just seeing the names I recognize. It's like running into old friends... smile


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.