You asked about quality time ideas so that got me thinking. I think my main need as a quality time person is to have a mental connection with someone and to be known. So the more you can listen and talk to her, understand her, her hopes and dreams likes and dislikes etc the more she will get the feeling of your full engagement with her. My very bottom LL is gifts and one of the reasons for this is that often a gift is not really "me". What that does is fly in the face of my need as a QT person to be known. If the person knew me well they would not choose a gift that I wouldn't like. If they listen to me they would hear me say things that would give them plenty of clues. So I tend to get a bit ratty about poor choices of gifts (I try my best not to). The other thing is that people who like gifts often say it is because the person thought of them (in other words thought of them when they weren't there) - well again this is of no help to a QT person because we want the person with us not out shopping for gifts (or off doing some AOS). The more I think about it the more this looks like it has to do with my fear of abandonment. QT is about staying right here, as is PT.

Quality time things are like sharing a joke, asking for an opinion, listening to a rant (and not taking it personally), speculating, gossiping, analysing the crap out of something, participating in shared activities (one time I was watching tennis on TV and my (now ex) H joined me - and he said "I guess this doesn't count as QT" - and I said "yes it does because you don't normally watch tennis and you're watching it because I like it"), going on a hike together, visiting a museum or a gallery together. Just anything really that gets you on the same page with each other and lets you see each other's POV about life the universe and everything.

The reason xH didn't enjoy doing QT things is because he is a private person and doesn't want to be "known". He prefers to remain in his own private world. He called it "wasting time" because most QT activities are "unproductive". Just like a person who isn't into gifts might call a gifts person materialistic.

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong