But for me, I'm extremely tired of H's enforced [for me, anyway] celibacy.
Me too. I guess I've been in a sex-starved M for years. H complained about it right before we separated as if it was my fault, but he was the one who kept the door to intimacy mostly closed. Every once in a while I would initiate once or twice, we'd have a great time, but the door would close again.
Yup. Yup. Yup.
H. had me on an almost no sex diet for the last year & a half. [2x for the whole year 2009] Granted, I didn't do as much to address that as I should have. Did practically nothing.
H. claims that due to my crabbiness [DIRECT RESULT of being sex-starved], he didn't want to ML. And I did tell him this numerous times. Which is why I'm now thinking about sampling some other lemonade stands ...
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10