Awoken, is your W trying to suck up to you to prevent your taking action on what happened on the weekend? I'm suspicious. If she has asked a question that you have to answer, I would text back politely and very briefly, but don't get chatty.
I'm sorry you're going through angst about NY woman. It sounds like you really connected with her, and that's leaving you feeling vulnerable. Vulnerability is good, it's what allows us to enjoy so many of life's pleasures. But we need to create safe situations in which we can let ourselves feel vulnerable.
Last edited by flowmom; 02/16/1011:00 PM.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
