So I should not call him at all this week, even though we plan to spend half a day together Thursday discussing taxes, house, etc? I really do not want to talk about R or D during our visit, but not sure how to prevent it because I think he may bring it up. I would like to see if we can just enjoy each others company. He is taking a half a day off from work and I am taking the whole day.

I plan to see my lawyer on Thursday morning (before meeting with my H) to really understand all of my options at this point including the fact that he will deployed overseas at the end of April.

It's so good to read the sitch where things have really worked out for the best in all circumstances, bnut I feel like my situation is hopeless. However, I will try to stick to GAL moving forward and see what happens. However time to spend with my H is running out since he leaves soon for overseas.

Thank you all for the warm support.


OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."