flowmom | shifting from devastated to rebuilding

[flowmom]

My advice:
you end convos
you end phone calls
you leave early (during kids' exchanges etc)
you dont answer calls and reply via texts

I am doing all of that except that I answer calls because his calls are usually about childcare scheduling (ie calling me to let me know that he's going to be late, etc., which I need to know). We don't text, but he often gets my emails on his iPhone. Our exchanges are very brief and to the point and I usually end the conversation with "is that all?" in a pleasant but "I've got other stuff to do" tone of voice. I'm a bit concerned about that because I'm not sure if it's a 180. When H initiated talking in the few months before the S, I didn't make myself that available for it.