Lost, Your h is bouncing around from anger, replay, depression and withdrawal. They love to bounce around. The best thing you can do is try to stop looking for what stage he's in. The bottom line is you and your family. You and your family are the stable, rational ones here. Your h is all over the globe.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
