Thanks, for the responses. I have an appointment to see counselor tomorrow. It's so hard. She has such hate in her voice. How could she go from being head over heels in love with me to this in a couple of days. How do I just let someone go after 10 years. I have contact with her almost everyday. Contact that she starts or because of S8.
She is terrible with money. Since she left she has spent twice as much on her own than if we are together. All that money is coming from our "joint" account. It's my account originally but I added her later. She thinks because I have money in my savings she can just drain the checking account. Thoughts? Keep in mind I have yet to see an attorney. I was hopping I wouldn't have to.