i think i also worry what my family/friends would think. would they think i'm an idiot, i deserve better, i have to know this is going to happen again? how can i bring my H back to my parent's house for holidays or just to hang out when i'm secretly thinking, they must think i am a fool.
Yep, I worry some about what my friends think. Mostly I worry that if I do decide to leave eventually that they will not be as supportive as they were the last time because I tried to make it work. I worry that I will face "I told you so" from a lot of people. I mentioned that to a few of my closest friends. They assured me that they want what is best for me and will be supportive of any decision I make. But I do know that at least one thinks I should dump him immediately and start over because he said I didn't seem happy when we met for lunch last month. Sigh.
Ultimately your family and friends love you and will support you. We all make the best decisions we can at the time and have to go from there.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
