Are regrets when you end a separation normal?

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OTM, i'm just curious, are you saying that you're not sure if you love your wife? it almost seems like you're hoping to suddenly realize that you do love her and that will help you start on the path to working on your M.

i always thought one wanted to work on their M BECAUSE they loved their spouse. not working on your M to find out IF you love them. that goes back to what i said about my coach's suggestion. decide what you want, then go after it.

was there ever a point in your M where you could easily without hesitation say you loved your W? if so, what were you both doing differently then?