You dont discuss your changes with him, you dont need to prove to him your changing.. you are changing for you, ODP is for you and also as an example for S to grow up with a mum who can control her feelings and not let them overwhelm her..
Next time he starts blaming you or making out your changes are temporary all you need to do is say "im working on mine, what are you doing" and walk away... or if you can even better say "we'll see" wink at him and walk away, be sexy sassy H4L.. You dont have to hide behind a wall because you know what you are and what you are doing and what you hope to change for your future.
Next 180 for you.. Dont let H get to you with digs about your changes, ignore, walk away or have sassy cheeky back answer!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
