OTOH, if all of your family and friends are in agreement you don't want to be the person who ignored all of the warnings and wind up in the same place yet again but with the feeling that you've wasted valuable time.
thanks, pearl. i think i also worry what my family/friends would think. would they think i'm an idiot, i deserve better, i have to know this is going to happen again? how can i bring my H back to my parent's house for holidays or just to hang out when i'm secretly thinking, they must think i am a fool. i know it's a dumb thing to worry about, because i can't control what other people say or think and i shouldn't even really care that much when it comes to my life. but these are people i love and respect and i just have visions of them looking at each other the second i leave the room and saying, have you ever seen such a messed up marriage in all your life, why doesn't she just tell him to hit the road?
you're right. it does suck.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
