Think my wife is having an MLC, looking for help

[Cadet]

I think what you're going to need to very carefully determine is if your wife is truly in MLC, which these folks here should be able to help you with.

We gave you the resources. You need to read them and

Only YOU can determine

if she in MLC.

Quickly
MLC = Depression + Unresolved childhood issues. Can be Set off by a traumatic event. Death, illness..etc