i guess i'm just thinking out loud here...if it's true this is a cylce that will only continue to repeat itself, how much of myself do i want to invest in this R?
The difference this time (correct me if I'm wrong) is that H is talking to IC to sort himself out. You'll have to wait and watch that process. He will have to prove through his actions over time that things can and will be different moving forward.
when he wanted to separate back in 2008, he started seeing a counselor. i watched and waited. he proved through his actions that things would be different. and now i'm in this place again. he's seeing a new IC this week, and i think he's going into it with a different mind set, but again...how much waiting and watching and proving do you put up with? i know it's a question that only i can answer...but when your friends and your family are saying, he's only going to do it again - it's kind of hard not to think, hmmm....maybe they are right.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
