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Like I said...I just want some peace...I dont want to be angry or hurt anymore...not that I ever wanted to be in the first place.


What you, I don't think, realize is this is a choice you're making. If you let her go and DETACH you will be at peace and in a much better place.

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Also I assume what is meant by actions speaking louder than words...rather than say I accept her R with OM, I can show her I do by not being hostile/combative and whatnot?


Exactly...

Last edited by volleydog; 02/16/10 07:35 PM.
Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."