Hey Sandi and Cutter, you are 100% right, I have not done the tough love part.. I am still learning. I am thinking I did but mostly reacting.
I have not been able to confirm 100% if there is OM or not. She is very good at deleting everything and me not seeing anything. If I could confirm I would be right there and letting OM know. When I talk to W about the OM she tells me there is nothing. She goes on to say that if it would make me feel better to contact him to do so. In my mind right now I tell myself over and over that my M is infact over. I need to start to take care of me. I should be the top priority. Cutter, I like the co-operate not compromise, stand firm and most importantly to Act, and not talk. Thats the one that I have to overcome..
Going furthur, we did agree ( on Friday ) that splitting accounts etc is something we should do anyway. I beleive this will still deliver the message that I am planning to move on with or without you. I dont want this to come across as controlling or anything like that and I assume you all think this is a step that I should take. Protect myself I guess..
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
