Thanks Pearl and Mind. You are both right. We have discussed this to some extent already. My H has said he will own it when directly asked, because he feels it is the right thing to do. But, very few people need to know details. We plan to basically say, "yes it is true, but H recognized it as a huge mistake, it is over and we are both committed to and working on our M". Enough said. But, I get knots in my stomach just thinking about it. I know it will pass, I know. But, I am a private person, always have been and this is a nightmare for me. It just goes on and on. I think we still have some hard times to come with this, but i am just trying to live day by day.
