Because to unblock her says "I am emotionally stable enough to be able to handle it."
And to BLOCK her, says the opposite.
Puppy
hmmm...thats more of a comment than advice (I was hoping more for "do this or do that")...but I know what you're saying.
I will probably end up unblocking the number. However I just got back from the preschool meeting about D3 and the meeting itself went ok but the interaction with my ex was horrible.
It started off ok...I was talked to politely and got offered doughnuts before we went into the meeting.
After the meeting was over we were sitting talking about it and my ex got up to leave...I asked her if she wasnt going to say anything about anything, and she asked me what I wanted her to say.
I told her I would like an apology for her threatening me and accusing me. And she said she wouldnt apologize because she still believes I'm the one who emailed the OM. I said I couldnt believe that she didnt believe me when i say I didnt do it and she said I'm the only person she knows who reads stuff on the internet. She said something about me making her stand in the cold whens he comes to get D3 and how I slammed the door in her face (which she later acknowledged was just shutting the door)...and indicated she's now holding a grudge about that too (on top of the list she's keeping about everything I've ever done to make her mad in the last 7.5 years).
I ended up saying that if that is how she feels then she should expect no cooperation from me. And she said fine she didnt want anything from me anyway.
So I left in an angrier state than when I arrived. It's so rediculous how she wont give an inch...and when she provokes me and I react, she uses that reaction to further cement her stance.
I think I will unblock her phone number though. Maybe that will somehow help in the end...if nothing more than giving me a better feeling for not being as stubborn as she is.
At any rate...should I try to make peace with her given our animosity at current? What can I do to get a positive and peaceful reaction from her? Should I start letting her come in the house to pick up and drop off D3? Or am I still right in bringing D3 to the door and getting her from the door?
I really just cant take much more of this...I cant go around angry for the rest of my life...the stress will give me a heart attack or worse.
