Exactly, I don't understand how H can get upset with me because I am frustrated because I haven't had a day off in...probably 6 months. I am with S every day. Taking care of him every day and he just gets to buy what he wants, live where he wants, do what he wants, without any concern for anyone. It drives me nuts! Of course this is why H says if he do D, he wants no visitation because he can't take care of S by himself. Just this weekend he got so upset with S about stuff that I just let slide.
They just don't get it at all. Part of the reason I want to know what my H's plans are because we have a lot of reintegrating to do before he were to move back in. Life is not a bed of roses, and you can't just do whatever you want when you have a potty training two year old.
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