So i need to detach I get this. My wife although have this A is overall a good mom and a very nice person. I believe that the Sept date is her attempt to help ME deal with this. This has been going on since Oct 1st of 2009. She has been pretty clear about wanting a D. She has all along said that she did not want to hurt me. So outside of GAL and Detaching what am I to do - if she is not a MLCer and is a WAS. I believe she thinks she gave it her all - I think she has said as much. She seems to be the one who was detached - not I. So is detaching really the best approach? I just pick up the DR book and will write down my goals tonight but quite honestly I just don't know what to do and I wonder if the past 5 months I have cause too much damage. Oh..another reason for the Sept date is to "pay down bills" so once again I see no possibilities here. Help guys.
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