Hmmm, that is tough to explain without sounding like ...an idiot. Remember that Quantum of Solace explanation? I believe that for some women, that Quantum of Solace stays with them for a while, if not forever. If we, (and I count myself as one of those), act on it, meaning "give the father of my kids another chance" is more an issue of circumstances when the feeling of love fades out than an issue of the feeling itself. Which means my caro John, you are just a circumstance...LOL (it could actually mean you came into her life for that exact reason, keep her away from him).
I told H once in the beginning, if PC wasnt so far away, he(H) would be history. Tough and cruel and against the reconciliation theme but it is exactly what we profess here :"love is a decision". I made a decision to build on that Quantum of Solace and see where it takes me. But if things were different, my decision would be different as well. K
