One thing I continue to struggle with is what to do legally. We've been working toward this separation agreement, and in my state, the only no fault D option is to be legally separated for one year, then either party can convert the separation to a D. I know my W is getting security knowing she has a year before the D becomes a possibility. I don't have to wait though, and a big part of me doesn't want to. I could file for D any time. From what CityGirl says, suing for D in this state is a nightmare though, so I feel stuck. Even if it means nothing to her, it means something to me to still be legally married. Why should I stay married to her while she's with someone else?
