That situation with OW's H sure is messed up. You can see why it is the way it is but it's still so ridiculous You know it's a tough call and you have opened yourself up to hurt again but you have also opened yourself to the possibility of love again. It's the risk we take. It's not over yet so just keep doing what you can. Maybe he has made his decision but maybe he can still be open to change thru you. In a matter of weeks, he's going to lose you forever if he doesn't give up OW. As scary as that is for you, you know it's got to be even more scary for H. You are a strong woman and can be strong with or without H. Hopefully H can get hit with that realization before it's too late. Stay strong! You're in the home stretch now!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10