TCBTE-I don't know if you remember but my H filed D papers. He was convinced or trying to convince himself that we were over. You don't really know what the future has in store...just live your life for you now and eventually things will fall into place.
I do remember that, however it seems to me that was in the beginning of his journey, and he made that move and immediately had second thoughts. My H has been consistently asking for D since he made the choice to be "done." There have been no signs of a second guess-----I have tried to justify his inability to take that step on his own as a sign that he was unsure----rather than just not wanting to be bothered by the details, hoping I would take care of it like I have done most everything else. But, in any case, although I will say my hope is not GONE, I know that I have to re-focus and hope to be a better me.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
