Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[Day by Day]

newmama,

The advice from your DB coach was lots to absorb. I think it was just what you needed. In fact, thanks for posting all of it because it even applies to me.

Yeah and one more thing--he said at some point that both WH and I deserve to be happy but that WH needs to see that he will be happier with ME, not OW, so I need to be the best newmama I can be. Then he said "and even if you divorce, you want WH to be happy right, I mean you don't want him to be miserable..."

Wasn't easy for me to agree to, but it's right even though WH has been a miserable and cruel man to me. I truly don't want to see him that way. I wish he would get in a better place and be reasonable.

I think you were at the point to have a coaching session since like I said before you were coming to a crossroads and you were given some good advice and direction.

This was the fuel you needed to help you with your DBing. Happy for you!