Wow Kevin, I've got to say that took some balls. Laying them down right next to his like that, and the single red rose. I too am surprised that you got a positive phone call from that. This is more of the badass Kevin I like to see.

Again, I keep going back to the main DB articles:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

Quote:
I tried very hard to not allow my pain, over her choice to leave me, to be reflected in my face, mannerisms or with respect to how I treated her. I gave her space and respected her choice to enter into a relationship with someone else. I never said anything bad about her boyfriend and was always there when he couldn’t or wouldn’t be there.

Friendship........empathy, being there without criticism, being non-judgmental.....this is unconditional friendship.


There will come a time when she realizes the the greener grass was a septic tank. And she'll call YOU and start whining about OM. Happened to me early in the sitch. This is unbelievably hard for all of us, but you're doing a great job.

How is the working out and going to Mass going?

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK