I have more thoughts about your house sitch, I'm missing some details. Can you afford to stay? Why should you buy him out? Do you want to live in that location? Sounds like its a good investment and the worst thing you can do with an investment is to make emotional changes to it (ala the financial adviser in me).
Tell me why... why you can't keep it, why you do/don't want to, why he wants it, why it is/isn't in your best interests to keep/sell.....
I dream about H all the time - good and bad. I think its just our brains way of sorting feelings/emotions that we don't face during the day. Try to keep a notebook near your bed and write them down right away. It will help you identify feelings you may not be honoring the way you should!!!
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