Now this is what I think about when I read how LBH's are so short with patience and want everything fixed in a short time......what if she had walked out or threaten D the first time you had not come to her defense or one of the other complaints she had about you? It took her years of being rejected by you, and yet how long have you been able to hang in here when "you" were the one rejected? This is not to beat you up but to point out to you that if you feel she really is valuable enough, then you won't be so fast to give up on her.
Thank you so much for this Sandi. I haven't posted my situation, but have been reading and hoping. This is exactly how I feel as a want to be WAW. Please listen to her on this. She is so very right on this.