It is nice to see W asked you for help. If nothing comes out of this, the two of you need to get to a point where you are always civil to one another for the girls. You don't have to be friends, and I don't think you ever could really be friends, but definitely being acquaintances and civil at all times is a good thing. Nice start and maybe she will be more civil when it comes to the D. Also good about sticking to e-mail because then you have everything in writing. The one thing about H always texting me is that I save all of his texts or my texts about him saying he loves me or me saying what I need or him saying what he wants. He deletes everything so I can't check his messages. Having the proof and everythign in writing, I learned through college, is so important.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89